Have you ever noticed that sometimes life put us into a particular situation just to help us learn what is like to be anothe person? If we hurt another, we will be hurt in the same way. If we misunderstand another and blame the person, we will be misunderstood and be blamed in the same way. This is the same with positive actions. If we give, we will be given. If we treat someone kindly, we will be treated kindly. Sometimes we are put in a particulary incident so that we can view a situation, or even life, from another person's point of view, which we have not seen or understood before. This happens in my life many times. And if I learn from it, the lesson will be over, but if I don't, it will be repeated.
Lately, I learned why a particulary person seem to treat me unkindly or look at me with distrustful eyes. I was hurt by his actions and didn't understand him at all. Two weeks after the situation, I was put into almost exactly the same situation but playing a different role. I felt a little uncomfortable by a few of his words and a bit of his actions, and I probably reacted the same way that the other person had acted toward me in the first situation. Now I can understand him better.
That is why we are told not to judge, and we must treat others in the way that we want to be treated. Otherwise, it will come around anyway. ;)
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